Six years ago we hopped the MAX light rail at 6 am in the morning to go downtown and get married before court started sessions at 8 am. The night before we sorted out my CDs. 30 pounds (lost not gained!) later, one crapartment, 3 billion disasters (car crash, in-laws house exploded, herniated discs, the cymbalta period , the credential program etc. etc.) later and I still can't believe my good fortune. Marriage is not usually romantic or fairy-tale like but Arnold is the best husband EVER! 6 years later and I'm still counting my blessings.